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Jamilla Rosdahl, Senior Lecturer, The University of Melbourne

From flowers to stalking: how ‘nice guy’ narratives can lead to male entitlement and violence against women

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Being labelled a “nice guy” was once considered a form of flattery. Today, however, anyone privy to the world of dating and romance will know this isn’t necessarily a compliment.

The term has been unofficially reappropriated by women to describe a certain kind of man – one who presents as being “nice”, but feels entitled to some kind of attention from a woman in exchange for this niceness.

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