“We.” It is a small word, but once a relationship becomes serious, it often starts appearing everywhere. “We’re going out this weekend,” “We can’t make it tomorrow,” or “We’ve decided to…” Couples naturally begin making plans together, sharing responsibilities, and thinking of themselves as a team. And while building a life together can be one of the most meaningful parts of a relationship, becoming a “we” does not mean either person has to give up their individuality, personal boundaries, or right to make decisions about their own space.
For instance, a woman simply wanted to enjoy a quiet Friday night at home when she agreed to let her boyfriend host a small gathering for one of their friends. She made it clear that she wanted to be included and expected the party to end at a reasonable time. The evening initially went smoothly—until her boyfriend secretly invited more people over and claimed he had the right to do so because he “pretty much lived there.” They got into a fight, leaving the woman wondering whether her boyfriend had crossed a serious boundary. Keep reading to know what happened next.
