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Carol Lefevre, Visiting Research Fellow, Department of English and Creative Writing, University of Adelaide

Friday essay: love in the time of incontinence – why young people don't have the monopoly on love, or even sex

Julie Christie and Gordon Pinsent in Away from Her (2006), based on Alice Munro's short story, The Bear Came Over the Mountain. IMDB

A friend with a close relative in a residential aged care home reports – in a tone of scandalised surprise – on romantic entanglements among the elderly.

In one case, a man and woman have become so inseparable that staff have been forced to move his bed into her room so the two can sleep side by side. When the woman’s son made an unexpected visit, he was distressed to find his mother in her nightdress in the arms of a stranger, though eventually he had to accept it was what she wanted.

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