
A new study out of MIT offers a first-of-its-kind large-scale computational analysis exploring the how and why of folks falling for AI chatbots. The research team dove into subreddit r/MyBoyfriendIsAI, a community of folks that sometimes ironically, sometimes more seriously refer to AI bots like ChatGPT as their romantic other half. The team found that many users' "AI companionship emerges unintentionally through functional use rather than deliberate seeking."
That means that while a user may first begin using an AI chatbot to, say, redraft an email or research caselaw that doesn't exist, an attachment can form over the course of initially aromantic prompts. The full paper elaborates: "Users consistently describe organic evolution from creative collaboration or problem-solving to unexpected emotional bonds, with some users progressing through conventional relationship milestones, including formal engagements and marriages."