We often think of abuse as loud arguments or physical intimidation. But some of the most damaging control happens quietly, buried in bank statements and “budgets.” Financial bullying is insidious because it is often disguised as “being responsible” or “taking care of things.”
If you find yourself asking for permission to buy groceries or feeling a knot of anxiety when you spend your own money, something is wrong. Financial bullying strips away your autonomy and leaves you dependent. It is time to shine a light on these controlling behaviors and call them what they are.
