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The Independent UK
The Independent UK
Helen Coffey

Stop saying women aren’t having babies - men aren’t having them either

Not many of the men I know who are child-free, whether by choice or circumstance, are routinely asked why they haven’t had a baby. I’ve certainly not questioned any of them – not unless it’s come up organically in conversation and they’ve been genuinely eager to share.

As a 39-year-old woman who has yet to procreate, I wish I could say the same. Five years ago, it didn’t seem to bother anyone much. Cut to my late thirties, and I get quizzed on or lectured about it on a fairly regular basis.

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