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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Rhiannon Batten

Don’t feel pressured, learn to ‘simmer’ and keep experimenting: how to have great sex at every stage of life

Cartoon-style illustration of various sexual practices

Age 16-25

Don’t worry if your first time isn’t perfect
“It’s not helpful to think of sex as having one big ‘first time’. You’ll probably have lots of first times,” says Milly Evans, author of Honest: Everything They Don’t Tell You About Sex, Relationships and Bodies Instead, she advises breaking it down into all the individual firsts you might have – “your first time having oral sex, penetrative sex, using hands or using toys”. Even if you experience all of these with one person, there will be a whole new set of firsts to explore with a different partner.

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