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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Politics
Mostafa Rachwani Community affairs reporter

Disturbing portrait of coercive control and violent masculinity revealed at Lilie James inquest

Composite image of Lilie James
Lilie James was found dead at St Andrews Cathedral school in Sydney in 2023. Composite: Guardian design

Paul Thijssen hated Lilie James. He hated that she had rejected him, that he could not control her, that she threatened the perfectly curated image of himself he wanted to project. And so he killed her with a hammer in the bathroom of the sports centre at St Andrew’s Cathedral school, where they both worked. He stepped through his meticulous, brutal plan calmly, never appearing frazzled or manic. She was only 21 years old.

And then, as detailed this week at the coronial inquest into both deaths, 23-year-old Thijssen travelled to Vaucluse, in Sydney’s east, and took his own life.

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