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The Guardian - UK
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Dinner or tea? Don’t make a meal of it

Multigenerational family enjoying meal together.
‘In our house, though we used to call it dinner, we have lunch now at dinner time … My Dutch daughter-in-law finds it all very confusing.’ Photograph: Wavebreak Media ltd/Alamy

I have bounced from south London to south Manchester, back to the West Midlands, across to the East Midlands and then various part of Pennine Yorkshire, navigating the meaning and timing of dinner, lunch and tea (With PM Burnham, we’ll get warmth, audacity and knowhow. For everything else, cling to hope, 20 July).

I gave up on learning and translating the local variations and settled on meals as being breakfast, lunch and supper. Everybody knows which I mean and approximately when they are to be eaten. Oh, and tea is drunk, not eaten.
Hannah Kaitlin-Boyer
Mirfield, West Yorkshire

• Confusion reigns (Letters, 22 July). In Scotland, my five-year-old son was asked by the health visitor what he had for tea. I worried she might call in social services when he replied: “Not much, just some biscuits.” Being English, “tea” meant what he got on return from school, having had “lunch” midday, and “dinner” for the evening meal. Adult friends then had “supper” just before bedtime.
Alyson Elliman
Carshalton Beeches, London

• In our house, though we used to call it dinner, we have lunch now at dinner time. But our grandchildren still have school dinners presided over by dinner ladies. As for our dinner now, we still call it tea. My Dutch daughter-in-law finds it all very confusing.
Sally Goldsmith
Sheffield

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