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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Wendy Syfret

Curiosity, atonement or a score to settle? Why – and how – people get through their high school reunions

A hand points at a grid of black-and-white yearbook reunion portrait photos beside a page of names
When making reintroductions at your high school reunion, it’s OK to have forgotten a few names and faces. Etiquette expert Jodie Bache-Mclean suggests offering your own name first. Composite: Guardian Design/Getty Images

Mike walked into his 20th high school reunion with a mission. The 40-year-old firefighter from Melbourne was not the first, nor will he be the last, to enter such a space with an agenda. After all, few social situations are as fraught as high school reunions.

Some may relish the chance to reconnect with former friends, a former life and even a former self, but for many they are a potential hellscape, where adolescent humiliations are revived in front of a group of rapidly ageing peers.

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