A couple's wedding plans are in disarray because the luxury Welsh hotel where they were supposed to be getting married is now housing asylum seekers. Simon Pritchard and Lucy Campbell say they were told via Zoom that they would have to find an alternative venue.
They booked the rural Snowdonia hotel for their December 10 wedding more than a year ago, but now have a week to find somewhere else to get married.
Lucy, 28, told NorthWalesLive : “When we were told the venue was being cancelled, we were both completely gobsmacked. We woke the next morning hoping it was just a bad dream. We’re still a bit shocked. We’d been counting down the days for the wedding to happen. When they told us, we just couldn’t believe it, especially the reason they gave us.”
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The couple, from Towyn, Conwy, have already paid for were the dress, suits and bridesmaids' dresses, and had no idea there were any issues until the venue, which WalesOnline is not naming for safeguarding reasons, requested an urgent meeting. As they were already busy, a Zoom meeting was arranged instead with the wedding coordinator on Saturday evening.
“I don’t blame the staff, the people who had to tell me,” said Lucy. “It was out of their hands. But I’m not sure how to take the claim that the hotel had no choice in the matter, that the Home Office simply demanded it.”
Aberconwy MP Robin Millar has expressed concern over the hotel's suitability for housing refugees, insisting it is “not a detention centre”. He has contacted the Home Office and is liaising with Councillor Charlie McCoubry, leader of Conwy Council,, to see what arrangements are needed.
Aberconwy MS Janet Finch-Saunders said the decision had sparked local "anger". She has written to Home Secretary Suella Braverman to express "serious concerns" over the project and has demanded the decision be reversed.
It’s understood all weddings and events have been cancelled at the hotel and that there are no rooms available until at least Spring 2023. The Home Office would not comment on “operational arrangements” but said it only used hotels as a “short-term solution” until “appropriate accommodation” was found.
Simon and Lucy have been together for more than a decade. They have three children: the youngest – a girl – was born just three months ago.
“I don’t know why but I feel slightly embarrassed by what’s happened, even though it was completely beyond our control,” said Lucy. “I’m upset, of course, because we’d been looking forward to it so much: our two boys can’t wait for mum and dad to have the same surnames.
“At the moment I’m too stressed to get angry about what the hotel has done. If we find an alternative venue, and we’re happy with it, maybe that’s when I’ll start getting angry.”
On Monday, Lucy visited a venue suggested by the hotel's wedding co-ordinator. She wants to see more venues – but the clock is ticking. Having spoken to Llandudno Registry Office, she discovered the couple must give 28 days' notice of their intentions to switch venue.
“We haven’t got much time to find somewhere suitable,” said Lucy. “I’ve had a look at one place, and while it was very nice, I don’t want to feel as if we have been left with just a single option. I would like a choice, if only to feel as if we haven’t been shoehorned into a venue.”
Another issue is the service providers Lucy has booked. If she chooses to postpone the wedding, she expects to lose some deposits – and further problems could also lie in store.
“I imagine most would be very understanding and agree to a new date,” she said. “But the wedding industry is still catching up from coronavirus and is very busy at the moment. Some might not have the availability. Finding a new date that everyone can agree on is likely to be very difficult.
"They said we’d be welcome to return there in the New Year to celebrate our wedding but I’m not sure what this means,” she said.
“In any case, why would we want to do that? After what the hotel has done to us? When we booked it, they sold us on the place as a stunning new venue, that it was so luxurious and that we’d be one of the first to get married there.
“For now, all I can do is focus on finding a new venue. I really don’t want to have to postpone the wedding. I have to remember that getting married isn’t all about the venue. But when you’ve set your heart on a place for more than a year, it’s hard to start thinking about somewhere else at such short notice.”
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