Many families struggle with a loved one facing encroaching cognitive impairments – and the decision points serve as heartbreaking reminders of life's fragility. More than simply taking the keys away, some families preside over a sad exit to iconic life. Diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease, Ronald Reagan shared his final thoughts about this subject when writing, "I now begin the journey that will lead me into the sunset of my life."
Recently, we learned of another world-renown figure leaving the stage due to cognitive challenges. Closing ranks around the dimming star of an extraordinary bright life, the touching letter of Bruce Willis' family resonated deeply with so many. While the debate rages on whether "Die Hard" serves as a Christmas movie, millions agree that Bruce Willis defined action – and action hero – for generations. Not since Errol Flynn has a movie star paired more memorable action with such a mischievous flair and towering wit.
As Willis' family struggles to care for someone with chronic challenges, they model the daily hard choices family caregivers make. Stories now quietly slip into the news of concerns by industry insiders who recognized the decline and increasing dangers on movie sets with Willis. The time had come, and the family formed ranks – united in care, concern, and most likely sadness.