The door of Rehana Khan’s sixth-floor flat is as far as she ventures during the day. On most days, she barely leaves her bed. The city outside is too chaotic and overwhelming for her.
Khan, 57, moved to Bangladesh’s capital, Dhaka, a year ago, after her husband died. She lives with her only son and his wife, who were worried about her being alone in a village in the north-eastern district of Sylhet.
Many of Bangladesh’s emerging middle class face the same problem: tied to Dhaka for work, they struggle to balance city lives with caring for parents, who then end up having to follow their children to the metropolis, a place they can find inhospitable and strange.
Doctors recommended that Khan walks for 45 minutes a day to manage her diabetes and high cholesterol but she is scared to venture out. In common with many of the city’s elderly people who live with non-communicable diseases such as diabetes, heart conditions and asthma, she finds Dhaka’s dangerous roads and lack of green spaces intimidating.
“The traffic, the pollution, the noise … it disturbs me. So I don’t go out alone. The whole day is spent inside,” says Khan.
“I don’t like it here. There’s nothing here for me. My son and his wife leave for the office early in the morning and it’s just me. I have no friends, no husband. I don’t have much connection with the neighbours like I do in the village. But I’m forced to stay here because I have no other option.”
She waits for the weekend, when her son tries to make time to take her out.
Dhaka’s population grows by an estimated half a million people every year and has struggled to expand in a way that caters for all. Younger generations come for the jobs, bringing their parents to ensure they are cared for but day-to-day life can be a challenge in a country where 70% of deaths were caused by NCDs in 2019.
For elderly and less mobile people, uneven or nonexistent sidewalks make navigating the city difficult. The situation is not helped by traders setting up businesses on the sides of busy roads, a lack of pedestrian crossings and buses which rarely stop long enough for older people to board.
Traffic rules are flouted, including by rickshaws that cut through pedestrian areas and race the wrong way down certain streets.
“I used to walk around by myself but now I don’t feel safe any more,” says Mohammed Bodi-Uz Zaman, 85. “To stay in the house is safer than outside because of the pollution. There is no footpath, there are hawkers blocking the way and rickshaws everywhere.”
Zaman spent decades working at the Bangladesh Agricultural University in Mymensingh but settled in Dhaka after retiring on the insistence of his family, who did not want him to stay alone in his village, about seven miles from Dhaka.
Zaman occasionally goes to the village to visit his relatives but much of his day is spent in his son’s flat and the balcony where he sits reading the newspaper.
“I feel stressed when I go outside, all the cars and the rickshaws. All the traffic – it feels like any time it can hit me,” says Zaman.
He lives with high blood pressure, chronic breathing problems and allergies that mean that he would benefit from regular walks. But the pollution and dangerous streets keep him indoors.
“It’s more comfortable in the village, I feel better there, I feel joy when I see my relatives, but I’m bound to the city.”
Most neighbourhoods have very little access to green spaces, which covered 47% of the city in 1992 but that fell to 16% in 2022, according to a study by researchers at Dhaka’s Jahangirnagar University.
Debra Efroymson, who runs the Institute of Wellbeing, a Bangladeshi NGO, says the city needs to be rethought, with the priority taken away from cars to improve residents’ quality of life.
She says she has seen elderly people choose to go for walks in car parks even when a public park is nearby because they fear crossing the road.
“The main concern of policymakers seems to be to accommodate the cars, so there’s a lot of talk about where the car is going to park and how the car is going to move through the city. What is lacking is any concern about people,” says Efroymson.
Efroymson spent the past winter in Dhaka during a period of heavy air pollution, including a day when it was declared the most polluted city in the world. She suggests a state of emergency should be imposed in Dhaka because of pollution, and recommends the city has car free days, as well as better planning “so people aren’t dying from breathing”.
“If you want a dignified life for all people – the elderly, people with mobility limitations or other disabilities – you have to have a quality environment where people can walk, move about safely and access the existing public spaces.”