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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Politics
Miranda Bryant

Brother, do you love me? The cry for help that sparked a care-home rescue mission

Manni Coe (right) left his life in Spain to look after his brother Reuben owing to concerns about the care he was receiving.
Manni Coe (right) left his life in Spain to look after his brother Reuben owing to concerns about the care he was receiving. Photograph: Andy Hall/The Observer

They were just five words, separated by four tiny full stops and four spaces: “brother. do. you. love. me.” But when, in November 2020, that text from Reuben Coe, who was alone in his room in a care home in Dorset, arrived on the phone of his brother Manni in Andalusia there was little else he could do. Manni had to get him out.

Soon the 48-year-old travel guide was packing his bags, saying an indeterminate goodbye to his partner Jack and flying to Britain on a one-way ticket. He collected Reuben, 38, who has Down’s syndrome, from the home, where he was given a 10% chance of recovering from the terrible toll isolation had taken on him, and took him to a cottage in a village near the Jurassic Coast.

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