Being one child in a large family can be hard, particularly when it’s pretty clear that your parents have decided to put most of their attention on your siblings. In these sorts of situations, the parents should, perhaps, not be surprised when the neglected child ends up making their own decisions.
A young man wondered if he was in the wrong for refusing to hand over his college fund to help pay for his sister’s stomach surgery. While it would immensely improve her quality of life, he wondered why they needed his money in particular.