Adeena on Tomi
What were you hoping for?
Someone who shares my love for Elizabethan architecture, countryside and rhubarb crumble. It was very specific – there was no way he could live up to my expectations!
First impressions?
Very tall.
What did you talk about?
Politics. Law. ESG. And more politics. (good thing we both like it). The most recent book I read. How we’re both fans of Blind Date – he said if this didn’t work out, the next step would have to be Love Island.
Any awkward moments?
We filled some awkward silences with small talk (which I hate).
Good table manners?
I’d say so. He put his napkin on his lap. Most people I’ve been on dates with don’t do that and it bothers me. But he didn’t wait for me to eat or drink first.
Best thing about Tomi?
He said he’s a careful driver and I think that’s an important attribute.
Would you introduce Tomi to your friends?
No, they would not get along.
Describe Tomi in three words.
Thoughtful. Attentive. Calm.
What do you think Tomi made of you?
At the end of the date he said, “Please be nice in the review,” so I don’t think he was particularly fond of me.
Did you go on somewhere?
The tube! He doesn’t know London well so thought we were going in the same direction. I may have been a bit abrupt.
And … did you kiss?
I just gave a side hug to be polite.
If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
Maybe a different restaurant – he said he likes cooking at home and isn’t familiar with Italian food. He also said at the beginning that he wouldn’t go on a first date at a restaurant again.
Marks out of 10?
5.
Would you meet again?
No. I’m quite busy with work and we didn’t have anything in common to do together.
Tomi on Adeena
What were you hoping for?
To meet someone like-minded with similar passions and to have a good conversation.
First impressions?
Adeena was very nicely dressed. She was a bit shy but seemed like a very good-hearted person.
What did you talk about?
I thought we shared a lot of similar interests. We chatted about our respective family backgrounds, our cultures and our shared interest in books. We have a similar taste in music and also talked about our passion for politics and our work.
Any awkward moments?
Just a couple of silent moments, so not too bad.
Good table manners?
Very good.
Best thing about Adeena?
Eye contact.
Would you introduce Adeena to your friends?
Yes.
Describe Adeena in three words.
Diligent, smart, devoted.
What do you think Adeena made of you?
She maybe thought of me as quite honest, calm and driven. I think we are both rather reserved but naturally quite humble.
Did you go on somewhere?
No.
And … did you kiss?
No.
If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
To sit away from the window. My food got cold quickly.
Marks out of 10?
7.
Would you meet again?
Yes, but at a different location.
Tomi and Adeena ate at Pastaio, London W1.
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