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Blind date: ‘She asked if I’d Googled her before the date. I said of course’

Zula (left) and Leyla.
Zula (left) and Leyla. Photograph: Sophia Evans/David Levene/The Guardian
Zula

Zula on Leyla

What were you hoping for?
I’ve had some bad experiences with dating apps, so to just have a nice time.

First impressions?
I was early, so walked up and down the street to not look too keen. When I went in, Leyla was already nursing a glass of wine, and we both laughed about being super early. I should’ve gone straight in.

What did you talk about?
Ranking our top cuisines. Our jobs. The meanings of our various tattoos.

Most awkward moment?
Leyla asked if I’d Googled her before the date. I said of course I had, but hadn’t found much – she told me I was lying.

Good table manners?
Totally fine.

Best thing about Leyla?
Easy to talk to and a good listener.

Would you introduce Leyla to your friends?
For sure – she is nice and easygoing – but not in a romantic sense.

Describe Leyla in three words.
Confident, funny and cool.

What do you think Leyla made of you?
Probably that I was younger than I am, like most people assume. Also that I was super hungry.

Did you go on somewhere?
No, Leyla ended up leaving after we finished our mains. I confess that I stayed behind and ordered an incredible slice of pistachio tiramisu.

And … did you kiss?
Nope.

If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
The restaurant was quite noisy, and I didn’t hear everything Leyla said, so maybe I nodded to some of her stories instead of responding actively, but apart from that it was a nice evening.

Marks out of 10?
7.

Would you meet again?
Not intentionally in a romantic way, but we might bump into each other as she’s moving to my neighbourhood.

Leyla (left) and Zula on their date
Leyla (left) and Zula on their date Photograph: -
Leyla

Leyla on Zula

What were you hoping for?
Absolute hilarity or, failing that, a meal with someone fun.

First impressions?
Warm with good energy.

What did you talk about?
Our professions. Travelling. Bad date stories. Our respective experiences in the art world.

Most awkward moment?
It was quite a busy night in the restaurant and I’m kind of deaf. There’s only so many times you can ask someone to repeat themselves from across the table.

Good table manners?
Stunning.

Best thing about Zula?
Her creativity.

Would you introduce Zula to your friends?
She’s super open so I’m sure she’d get on with anyone, but only as a pal.

Describe Zula in three words.
Assured, chatty, creative.

What do you think Zula made of you?
Probably a bit chaotic.

Did you go on somewhere?
No, I suggested going for a drink but wisely we didn’t, as we both had work the next day.

And … did you kiss?
No.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
It was nice to meet Zula but there was no connection.

Marks out of 10?
6.

Would you meet again?
I’d definitely say hi if we bumped into each other.

Zula and Leyla ate at Firebird, London W1. Fancy a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com

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