Yippee, you’re getting married! You may have had the question popped to you (or popped it yourself), but know that this is only the beginning.
Saying ‘yes!’ triggers a wave of more queries, questions and requests from now until the wedding march plays on your walk up the aisle. From venue-searching to nailing the perfect wedding band, there are tons of things to check and ask, but top of the list is finalising the line-up of your ‘I Do’ crew.
We’re talking bridesmaids; your handselected squad of wedding wing-women (and men) who will be patiently by your side through 8,599 cake tastings, umpteen bridal boutique visits, and help you nail down those final elusive RSVPs.
It may be your big day but there’s no way you’d be able to do it without them.
So if you’re looking for a way to butter them up for the logistical challenge that lays ahead or you want to thank them before the wedding (crossing off one group of people from your Thank You card-writing list), then we’ve gathered the perfect ideas for you.
From personalised fragrances they can wear on the day, to hard liquor to enjoy before the hen, scroll on to see our edit of the best gifts for your bridesmaids.
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Farrah & Eve Paper Co. Modern Bridesmaid Card Pop The Question Card
Surprise your bridal brigade with a special card that spells out their role in your big day. The inside has been left blank for you to pen your own special message.
Buy now £3.75, NOTHS
All Bits Printed Bridesmaid Proposal Gift Box
Proposing with a hamper is bound to get the right response. This gift box from British company All Bits Printed has everything she’ll need as she helps you prepare for your nuptials, from a celebratory mini bottle of prosecco to a calming candle and flip flops so she can continue to throw shapes on the reception dance floor. The inner lid of the box does the asking for you with the words ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ in flowing rose gold script.
Buy now £12.50, Etsy
Junk Jewels ‘I Couldn’t Tie The Knot Without You’ Bridesmaid Bangle
If you’re looking to pop the big bridesmaid question with a piece of jewellery of your own, this knot bracelet is the sweetest thing. The open mouth design comes in a rose gold finish, making it perfect for everyday wear as well as special occasions.
Buy now £20.00, NOTHS
Brit-Stitch Will You Be My Bridesmaid? Personalised Heart Keyring
A sweet little token of your affection, these proposal keyring charms made from double layers of leather are as practical as they are thoughtful. Really, who could say no?
Buy now £20.00, NOTHS
The Perfume Shop personalised fragrances
The search for a nice, not naff, gift ends at The Perfume Shop, which has selected fragrances ready to be given the personal touch with a little engraving. Have the same message imprinted on the reverse of bestselling bottles, or make each one as different as your ‘maids. Our favourite for weddings include Lancome’s La Vie Est Belle, Daisy Eau So Fresh by Marc Jacobs, and My Way by Armani.
Planning a destination wedding? Si Passione Eclat by Armani is perfect for balmy ceremonies by the ocean.
Lisa Angel Floral Initial Necklace in gold
Jewellery for the ceremony is a lovely idea, especially if your bridal brigade are all wearing slightly different dresses. Initial necklaces finished with pretty floral detailing are an all-round winner and destined to be worn long after your day is done.
Buy now £23.00, Lisa Angel
Katie Loxton Perfect Pouch Bridesmaid
Whether they use them for the ceremony or you just want to treat your girls to something special, Katie Loxton’s zipped pouches feel elegant but won’t blow the wedding budget. Made with vegan leather and measuring 16 x 24cm, it’s the perfect size to keep all their essentials safe. Why not have each one stamped with their initials to up the personal touch?
Buy now £16.99, Katie Loxton
F&M Chocolate Flowers
A bouquet that’s good enough to eat is the perfect way to thank your ‘maids before or after the big day. Head to Fortnums to find this pretty arrangement of milk and dark chocolate flowers, beautifully presented in a circular box.
Buy now £15.95, F&M
Anthropologie Monogram Huggie Hoop Earrings
For a thoughtful bridesmaid thank you gift they can wear anywhere, these huggie-style hoop earrings are a delight. The gold-coloured bands are embedded with coloured crystals and a golden initial. Why give one ring when you can gift two?
Buy now £35.00, Anthropologie
Bloom & Wild The Anna Bouquet
They may be getting their own bridesmaid bouquets but flowers are rarely ill-received. Send this letterbox bouquet to your BFFs to convey your appreciation. The 15 stems will arrive in bud, slowly blooming over 48 hours so they can be enjoyed for as long as possible. They come with a gift card too, so you can add your personal message of thanks.
Buy now £25.00, Bloom & Wild
Bloom Boutique Round Spinner Personalised Name Necklace
A simple design with a twist, thank them with a spinner necklace that can be engraved with their name, or perhaps an in-joke that only they will appreciate. The pieces are available in gold, silver and copper colours, and there are a trio of fonts to choose from too.
Buy now £19.20, Bloom Boutique
ESPA Charms of Happiness
If a pamper session is a sure-fire way to spoil your squad, look no further than ESPA’s box, which contains all they need to unwind the night before the big day. Inside the smart red gift box, they’ll find travel-sized versions of bathtime bestsellers: a Positivity Bath & Body Oil 15ml, Positivity Bath & Shower Gel 50ml, Positivity Pulse Point Oil 9ml and a body brush to get their skin glowing.
Buy now £24.00, Lookfantastic
M&S Alphabet Velvet Makeup Bag
From food to flowers, you can always rely on M&S for top notch goods. For a budget-friendly gift, these boxy velvet bags won’t fail to get the right reaction, and you can pick each one according to your bridesmaid and flower girls’ name. They come in navy, pink and white depending on the initial.
Buy now £5.00, M&S
Pale Fox Gift Wrapped Coupe Pack
The gift of prosecco is a universally-adored thing. For best mates who set their watch by Prosecco O’Clock, present them with Pale Fox, a delicious single estate version of the UK’s favourite Italian sparkling wine.
Make it special with this gift pack, which sees a 75cl bottle (£25.95 alone) and pair of chic coupe glasses packed in a beautiful presentation box. Cheers!
Buy now £49.95, Pale Fox
Floral Street Wonderland Peony eau de parfum 50ml
Peony season may have been and gone, but your pal can linger in the flower’s beautiful notes for longer thanks to Floral Street. Its Wonderland Peony EDP is a celebration of the popular petal, and is so fragrant with notes of blackcurrant, pink berries and candy floss, that actual strangers have stopped us in the street to ask what we’re wearing. Bonus points for the display-worthy bottle, too.
Buy now £64.00, Selfridges
Reebok Classic Leather Shoes
No matter their style, a classic white trainer is a universal wardrobe staple. Give your best pal the joy of a box fresh pair with Reebok's timeless leather version - they can even be personalised if you're buying them for a special occasion. Available in sizes 3 - 12.
Buy now £70.00, Reebok
818 Tequila by Kendall Jenner
Supermodel Kendall Jenner is the latest of her famous family to launch a product.
This time its tequila and the good news is, it’s ripe for gifting (especially for the one whose happy hour tipple is a margarita). The slow-batch spirit has been made with agave leaves harvested in Jalisco, Mexico before being cooked and aged in French oak barrells.
It’s been available Stateside for a while but has now made its debut in the UK. What better excuse to get your hands on a bottle?
Buy now £64.99, The Bottle Club
instax mini Evo Instant Camera in Black
All the fun of an instant camera paired with all the convenience of a digital, Fujifilm's new evo is the perfect gift for your shutterbug pal.
Not only can you print retro-effect snaps with 10 lens effects and 10 film effects, but though the app, it allows you to print off your camera roll too - meaning you'll never waste precious film again. It's packed with tons of other fun features including a selfie mirror, self-timer and macro mode. They won’t be able to stop smiling.
Buy now £174.00, Jessops
Freixenet Prosecco Doc 150cl
The bigger the bottle, the greater your love - perhaps not actual fact but it's one way to convey your affection that we're sure will be warmly received. Freixenet's magnum-sized bottles (twice the usual size) are the perfect gift to hand over to your mate to mark a special occasion.
Do it in person, so it can be a gift for you both.
Buy now £22.00, Tesco
GLOSSYBOX Subscription
Friends don’t let friends suffer with bad skin. Skincare is at the top of everyone’s agenda, so why not send them a beauty box subscription to breathe new life into their dressing table?
Containing products worth more than the box, a Glossybox subscription makes the ideal gift for your gals. They’ll get five new products to enjoy every month and boxes are often themed and designed to be kept as storage, minimising waste.
Buy now £13.25, GLOSSYBOX
Chelsea Peers NYC Stripe Satin Button Up Long Pyjama Set
If you're planning a pals night in, treat your BFF to sumptuous new PJs from Chelsea Peers’ Wellness Range. There are plenty of fun prints to choose from (including a giraffe print that we're bookmarking as the next leopard) but for timeless style, this satin stripe cream two-piece ticks all the boxes. Available in sizes XXS to XL.
Buy now £50.00, Chelsea Peers NYC
