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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Claire Cohen

‘Be more vulnerable!’ What women can teach men about friendship – and what they can learn from men

Composite of Olivia Newton-John and John Travolta and friends singing Summer Nights in Grease
Tell me more … Olivia Newton-John and John Travolta singing Summer Nights in Grease, in which her version of their romance was somewhat different to his. Composite: Both image Alamy

To say that women’s friendships tend to revolve around emotional conversations with another individual, while men prefer group scenarios and can only share their worries after a few pints is a sweeping generalisation. Yet a study by the University of Oxford concluded pretty much that: male friendships are more likely to flourish around a shared activity (hello Mamils), while women prefer intimate, one-to-one interactions.

Science hasn’t fully explained how much of our friendship styles are dictated by nature and nurture, but there are hints. Research by Dr Anna Machin, a renowned anthropologist and author of Why We Love, has found that women get more emotional connection from their female friends than from any male romantic partner.

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