If you think about how often friendship dramas and fallouts were started due to legit reasons where somebody did or said something that shouldn’t have been done and how many times they started just because of misinterpretation or miscommunication, I am pretty sure the second option would be more common. And, unsurprisingly, losing friends due to their refusal to even listen is not the nicest thing.
This Reddit user found herself in a very similar situation – after telling a friend that she wished she could eat as much cake as everyone else, having in mind that she was full due to making it all day, she was called fatphobic.
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