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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Anna Moore

At 50, I had a flashback to a priest abusing me as a child. Then I decided to confront him

Mary Dispenza at home in Washington
‘I was facing difficult truths – and once you start, you don’t want to stop’ … Mary Dispenza at home in Washington. Photograph: Annabel Clark/The Guardian

Mary Dispenza was almost 50 when she experienced her first flashback. At the time, she was in a workshop entitled Sexual Misconduct on the Part of the Clergy, which she had been asked to attend as part of her job in pastoral support for the Roman Catholic archdiocese in Seattle. To this day, she isn’t sure what words unleashed that memory.

She recalls only how clammy her hands became and how the room suddenly started spinning as she saw her seven-year-old self being lifted on to the lap of a priest in a dark, empty auditorium. She knew in an instant who he was.

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