Dear Mr. Dad: A few years ago, I saw a column of yours that offered advice to an expectant father on what to expect when he becomes a dad. I was single then, so I didn’t pay much attention to the article, but now my wife is pregnant and I’m concerned that I haven’t done enough to prepare myself. What’s in store for me?
A: I was just having a conversation with a friend about what has and hasn’t changed in the 25-plus years I’ve been working with, researching and writing about fathers. One of the biggest non-changes is that most first-time dads still (quite understandably) have no idea what they’re in for.
For some guys, reality will bite even before they leave the hospital. For others, it could be a few days or weeks. But eventually, every new dad comes to the realization that his life has changed — profoundly and permanently. Here’s a glimpse into what you might encounter on the long, wild ride you’re about to get on, with its new responsibilities, new pressures and new expectations:
