Spoilers for the Love is Blind season 10 finale ahead. One of the beautiful things about Netflix’s Love Is Blind is that it forces the reality dating show contestants to confront what they actually want in their partner—not just what they think they want. Ohio’s Jordan Faeth is season 10’s most prudent example of this, as he develops strong feelings for single mom Amber Morrison, but had previously told producers that having kids was a dealbreaker for him. While Jordan seems to have thrown out this requirement to partner with Amber, viewers kept questioning whether those previously held expectations would rear their head on the way to the altar.
With the finale out now, here’s a breakdown of Amber and Jordan’s connection on Love Is Blind season 10, and whether they’re still together after filming.
What happens in the pods between Amber and Jordan on 'Love is Blind' season 10?
Account executive Jordan and registered nurse Amber (both 34-years-old) initially bond in the pods over being foodies with goofy senses of humor. He quickly identifies cooking as one of his favorite hobbies, while Amber discloses early on that she’s the mother of a 7-year-old daughter, Emma. At first, Jordan is nervous about Amber being a mom; in a confessional, he recalls he told producers that having children was a dealbreaker in a future partner, though he’s now rethinking that stance. To make things more complicated, she tells him that she’s very selective about who meets her daughter; dating her isn’t a shoo-in to meeting Emma, and a previous boyfriend never got the honor.
Amber’s daughter leads to significant conversations early. Amber asks whether he’s nervous about bringing two people into his life, and he’s honest when he says yes. But getting to know Amber has eased his mind, he says. He’s also relaxed by the fact that Amber and her daughter have a good relationship with the child’s father, meaning Jordan wouldn’t be expected to take on all fatherly duties immediately.
Jordan and Amber also bond over feeling like outcasts. Jordan says that many people think he’s “an oaf” and had teachers who called him stupid, while Amber reveals that she was bullied in school and felt judged about having a child without being married. “It would be nice to have somebody to be weird with,” Jordan says. Amber agrees, though her insecurities occasionally get in the way of believing their compatibility (like when she can’t accept Jordan’s compliment about her “charming” voice).
The duo talks a lot about their careers: Amber likes her job, but hopes to pursue something more artistic, while Jordan feels he hasn’t found his professional path. “Cooking is my love language,” he says, and he later bakes her homemade chocolate chip cookies as a display of his affection. Soon enough, they’re exchanging love notes, calling each other “the most beautiful person that I’ve never seen.”
Do Amber and Jordan get engaged on 'Love Is Blind' season 10?
By the end of the second episode, Jordan is down on one knee and, thankfully, Amber says yes. Before the reveal, both Jordan and Amber reiterate that they aren’t worried about the other’s appearance. (However, we need to talk about how many of these comments end up being ableist, like when Jordan states he’d love her even if she only had one leg.) At the reveal, he’s quick to say she’s stunning, but Amber isn’t overtly gushing with excitement over Jordan’s appearance. She finally says he’s handsome, but her demeanor conveys some slight disappointment—or at least reservations. As they spend time together, she opens up more, and in the confessional, she compliments his smile and eyes that “really light up whenever he talks.” Amber also ranks this moment pretty high, calling it the second-best moment in her life, just behind giving birth to Emma. Before they part, he gives her the handwritten letter that he wrote and recited in the pods as a keepsake for Amber.
Do Amber and Jordan stay together after the pods on 'Love Is Blind' season 10?
By the time the couple is in Cabo in the fifth and sixth episodes, Amber and Jordan seem to be gelling. She calls their time together “one of the most incredible experiences I’ve had in my life,” feeling excited by how much they laugh together. They sleep together, and while they don’t necessarily kiss and tell, they do joke about doing it while Jordan had his CPAP machine on—leaning even more into their fun-loving personalities.
The reality show's stretch of episodes on vacation is always an interesting test for couples, as the contestants finally see some of the people they connected with in the pods. But for Jordan and Amber, their attention is focused on each other—Jordan even breaks away from the other guys to spend more time with his fiancée. When the girls are alone, Amber continues complimenting Jordan, saying he’s the most genuinely nice guy she’s been with, which has changed her mind about men in general. Other couples, like Emma Betsinger and Mike Gibney, also notice Jordan and Amber’s easy connection and deem them one of the season’s most solid matches.
When the pair head back to their real lives in Ohio in the second batch of episodes, they immediately begin to address certain realities head-on. One of them is Amber’s daughter Emma, who learns about Jordan’s existence but doesn’t meet him over the course of these few episodes. Instead, Jordan meets Emma’s dad, Matt, off-camera, while Amber tells Emma that her marriage won’t be a one-sided decision and that her daughter has a say in the outcome.
The other conversation is about where they’d live in the future. Jordan lives in the city, while Amber bought a house in a suburb about an hour away, prioritizing Emma’s school district. She’s put a lot of care into renovating her home, while Jordan’s is (unsurprisingly) a man cave. Getting an entirely new place together is likely in the cards, and the couple agrees they wouldn’t want to live outside of their means. While Amber is open to moving anywhere as long as Emma’s school is accessible, she hopes Jordan will consider her current town, Mount Vernon.
Later, Jordan meets Amber’s brother Jacob, who is optimistic about the couple’s future. Jacob used to worry about his sister, as her last few relationships were with “shitty men,” and Jordan openly admits that Amber is the first person who’s made him see kids in his future. Jordan echoes this at a dinner with his mom and sisters, who warmly accept Amber into the fold.
Jordan and Amber aren’t featured heavily in the “Pod Squad” reunion at the end of episode 9, except when Amber confronts Chris Fusco over his break-up with Jessica Barrett. Chris puts his foot in his mouth by saying everyone thought Amber was “crazy,” and while she doesn’t react in the moment, Jordan doesn’t immediately defend her. While it seems she didn’t necessarily consider this a red flag, she overhears Jordan mention to the boys that meeting Emma is “a little scary,” which sets her off. Amber reminds Jordan that he can bail at any point and reasons that she can’t be with him if he’s not ready to be a father. She shuts him out for over a day, marking their first big fight as a couple, which leaves Jordan feeling defeated. No matter her reasons, giving Jordan the cold shoulder, rather than discussing her concerns, isn’t the most mature response.
Still, Jordan persists, and Amber finally comes back to the apartment to talk. She reveals that her main hurt lies in Jordan telling fellow Love Is Blind contestant Vic St. John about his feelings about meeting Emma before telling her. She previously believed they had open communication, but is now questioning that—and questioning him. Jordan defends himself as genuine, conveying that the only reason he’s gone this far in the experiment is because of her. He admits he’s afraid to make a lifelong commitment to Amber without meeting Emma, knowing how she’s the most important person in Amber’s life. Amber softens slightly, reassuring Jordan that she’s not worried about whether Emma will like him: He’s a good person, and they don’t have a toxic relationship, which is all that matters.
But right as she says that, she gives Jordan whiplash by projecting her past relationship insecurities onto him. After Jordan tells her that he’s not trying to bail, Amber points out that men “say bullshit to women all the time.” Jordan says he’s not like the men she’s dated before, and Amber defensively says he hasn’t proven that yet. This makes Jordan feel awful, and he rightly notes that it’s unfair to be compared to “the dirtbags of her past,” especially when he’s been emotionally available to her. When Jordan says he doesn’t know how to bring her walls down, Amber concedes and acknowledges that she’s usually in “fight or flight” mode. In previous relationships, she would’ve left, but with Jordan, she decided to come back.
Things seem to have smoothed over by the time they go to their respective tux and dress fittings. Jordan tells his friends that this is the most complete love he’s ever had, while Amber chooses a sparkly dress that Emma would love. Her friends are overjoyed for her, and she tearfully says she’s excited to show her daughter what true love looks like and what a good guy loving you can look like. The dress fitting seems to have unlocked something in Amber: She says in a confessional that she wants Jordan and Emma to finally meet, and she’s ready to be by his side forever.
We don’t see the meeting between the two happen on the show, but in the penultimate episode, Jordan and Amber visit one of Emma’s favorite places in Ohio: Otherworld, a futuristic entertainment center. They have a blast playing carnival games and venturing through the various rooms of Otherworld, and the open communication seems to have given both of them a sense of calmness and confidence. Jordan says he doesn’t have reservations about the wedding because they’re on the same page, and he’s looking forward to building a life together. Later in episode 11 at the bachelorette party, Amber calls Jordan “the best” and hopes he realizes that being a father figure to Emma will fulfill his life in ways he can’t yet understand.
Do Amber and Jordan get married on 'Love Is Blind' season 10?
When it's time for Amber and Jordan's wedding day during the season 10 finale, many in their orbit are curious whether Jordan met Emma before their big day. Amber reassures her bridesmaids that they spent time together the day prior, and Emma had fun putting on a talent show for Jordan. Amber's friend gets teary as she says how happy she is that Amber has met a nice guy. However, though Amber says she's ready to marry him, her biggest fear is that Jordan may be under a lot of pressure and doubt. Even when her brother Jacob admits that he'd be shocked if Jordan says yes, she says that she'd understand either way.
Cut to Jordan, and he admits that he "didn't sleep great" the night before. He seems a bit nervous as he speaks with his family, telling them about his day with Emma and his and Amber's compromise on where to live. At first, he says his family has helped his nerves, but he freaks out in the car ride from the lounge to the venue. As he hugs his sister, he admits that he doesn't know what to do. She gives him some great advice: "Just breathe, and go with your heart."
When the pair make it down the aisle—following an appearance by flower-girl Emma—their vows are sweet. Amber says that Jordan makes her a more positive person and makes her realize what matters in life. Jordan keeps it short and sweet, commenting how they've both put "so much effort and love" into their relationship. Amber answers first, saying, "I do, but I understand if there's any doubts. I have a lot going on." And after a heavy pause, where producers even add a heartbeat sound, he answers, "I wanna follow my heart and say that I do...I do."
After the delayed, shocked applause, the entire crowd gets up for a standing ovation. (Emma is crying, so now I'm crying.) During a final interview, Amber calls this one of the best moments of her life, since she expected him not to be ready. They even share a toast as Amber holds Emma, with the new family celebrating.
Are Amber and Jordan from 'Love Is Blind' season 10 still together?
Love Is Blind fans are used to Netflix's airtight NDAs on the reality hit; however, clue hunters have still been analyzing the mixed signals regarding Jordan and Amber’s current relationship status. Even though Amber and Jordan follow each other on Instagram, neither has posted any pics of the other on their grids. Still, there's no way to know whether they're on the rocks or just choosing to keep their relationship private.
Unfortunately, even before the finale aired, rumors began swirling that Amber and Jordan's love story was short-lived. In a Reel posted after the season 10 premiere, the "Reality Receipts" podcast claimed that Amber and Jordan would get married in the finale, but that their marriage lasted only three months. Viewers won't find out whether this claim is true until the March 11 reunion, but past spoilers have come true, so it looks like we may need to brace for heartbreaking news next week.
