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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
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Bianca Denny

Anna longed for a second child. Coming to terms with secondary infertility meant letting go of her fixed notion of family

Shadow on sandy beach of a family of three holding hands
‘Anna couldn’t imagine a childhood without her sibling; by extension, the idea of her own child not having a sibling felt alien.’ Photograph: d3sign/Getty Images

Anna* delighted in motherhood and was eager to add a second child to her family. She expected conception and pregnancy to again be quick and easy but, after a year of negative pregnancy tests, Anna’s doctor used a term she had not heard before: secondary infertility.

For Anna, the anguish associated with secondary infertility – the inability to conceive or carry to term a second or subsequent child – was pervading all aspects of her life. Anna believed her family to be incomplete without a second child and was devastated at the thought of her child growing up without a sibling.

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