Get all your news in one place.
100's of premium titles.
One app.
Start reading
The Economic Times
The Economic Times
National
Shreya Biswas

African proverb of the day: 'To love someone who doesn’t love you is like shaking a tree to make...' - this African saying explains the reality of unrequited love, why one-sided love hurts and life lessons on letting go and acceptance

African proverb of the day: One-sided love is when a person deeply cares for or loves someone, but those feelings are not returned in the same way. It often begins with hope, attachment, and strong emotions, but slowly turns into emotional imbalance when there is no mutual response. The person experiencing it may continue giving attention, care, and effort, even without receiving the same level of affection back. This kind of love can feel confusing and painful because it mixes emotional connection with uncertainty. People in one-sided love often hold on to small signs or expectations, even when reality shows otherwise. Over time, it can lead to sadness, self-doubt, or emotional exhaustion. It also teaches important lessons about acceptance, boundaries, and emotional awareness. Understanding one-sided love is important because it helps people recognize when feelings are not mutual and when it may be healthier to step back emotionally instead of continuing to invest in a connection that does not grow equally.

African Proverb of the Day Today on One-Sided and Unrequited Love

Sign up to read this article
Read news from 100's of titles, curated specifically for you.
Already a member? Sign in here
Related Stories
Top stories on inkl right now
One subscription that gives you access to news from hundreds of sites
Already a member? Sign in here
Our Picks
Fourteen days free
Download the app
One app. One membership.
100+ trusted global sources.