
You trust a family member with power of attorney, expecting care and good judgment. But sometimes “helpful” turns into “harmful” when that trusted person puts themselves first—not the one they’re supposed to serve. In these seven examples of power of attorney abuse, we’ll see how relatives crossed the line and learn what red flags and legal solutions to watch for. Whether you’re setting up POA or worried about misuse, knowing these stories can help you protect loved ones from financial and emotional harm. Read on—before well-meaning turns into wrongdoing.