Watching your son grow into a man should feel like a victory. Lately, many mothers feel a nagging sense of dread instead. You pour your heart into protecting him. Eventually, you realize he struggles with the basic demands of adult life. It is not that you failed to love him. Rather, the very acts of care you intended to be supportive created an invisible cage of dependency.
This cycle often stems from a deep desire to prevent his struggle. Yet, struggle is exactly what builds the muscle of manhood. Understanding these unintentional habits is the first step toward releasing him into the world as a capable, resilient adult.
