
Loneliness is often a liar. It whispers that you are ready to date again simply because you are bored, sad, or tired of watching movies alone on a Friday night. Consequently, you download the apps, upload a few photos, and start the process. However, every swipe feels strangely heavy, and every conversation feels like a chore.
Dating before you are truly healed is a recipe for disaster. Not only do you risk reopening your own wounds, but you also risk dragging innocent people into your unresolved mess. It is perfectly okay—and often necessary—to be single for a season. If you are wondering if you jumped the gun, here are six brutal signs that you aren’t ready to date and need to prioritize yourself first.