Ever catch yourself wondering why you still don’t feel rich — even when people around you swear you’re doing pretty well?
Turns out, wealth doesn’t always look like private jets and designer everything. “‘Feeling’ rich isn’t a reliable measure of anything,” said Robert Cannon, financial advisor at Experity Wealth.
The more useful test, he explained, is whether your money gives you control over time and choices. It’s more about whether you can cover your essentials, invest consistently, absorb an unexpected expense without scrambling and say no to income that conflicts with your values.
Here are some key signs you’re more well-off than you think — even if it doesn’t feel like it day to day.
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Sustained Positive Cash Flow Is a Strong Marker
When your lifestyle sits comfortably below your income and you still fund investments and reserves, you are building durable wealth.
“I often see clients underestimate this because of hedonic adaptation,” Cannon said. “You get used to upgrades quickly, so progress feels ordinary.”
A simple fix is to track your cash flow and net worth on a single page each month and review the trend rather than today’s number.
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Resilience Is Another Sign
A robust emergency fund, appropriate insurance and manageable, declining debt mean an unexpected bill is an annoyance rather than a crisis.
According to Cannon, that resilience usually shows up alongside a calm money routine, such as automated saving on paycheck day and a monthly review. “People who feel poor despite being secure are usually comparing themselves upward, so they dismiss resilience as trivial,” he said.
He suggested limiting comparison and documenting your wins. For example, try noting each month you stayed invested, avoided new debt or hit a savings milestone.
Retirement Readiness Matters More Than Headline Income
If your plan shows you can sustain your desired lifestyle at a reasonable withdrawal rate and you are capturing tax advantages and employer contributions, you are rich in the way that counts.
“Use objective metrics to keep yourself honest,” Cannon added. Track net worth, savings rate by habit not percentage, emergency reserves, debt trends and retirement plan funding.
“Keep the focus on direction and consistency, not perfection,” he said.
Key Takeaways
“Start by defining what ‘enough’ means to you,” Cannon advised. Write down your essential expenses, the life experiences you truly value, and the minimum capital or income needed to sustain them.
“When people anchor to a clear definition of enough, the psychological mirage of wealth fades. You can then judge progress against your own plan rather than a shifting peer group,” he said.
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