Parenthood can be very challenging. And even though some moms and dads say there’s nothing more rewarding, others might not feel the same way about it.
There are people who know the role of a parent is not for them; they often choose to be child-free. Others might only come to such a realization after starting a family, which can lead to them regretting having kids. A 2021 survey revealed that as much as 29% of Americans say they want to have fewer children or don’t want to have them at all.
For those who regret becoming parents, admitting that to themselves or others might not be an easy thing to do. But some of them have opened up about it on the ‘Regretful Parents’ subreddit—a safe space for people who think they should not have had children.
A Brooklyn-based actor, writer, and podcaster, Rachel Diamond, discussed the subreddit in one of her TikTok videos. She was replying to a comment someone made, saying that they haven’t met a single person who regrets becoming a parent. Scroll down to find her video and some confessions from parents who do.
@rachelandrue Replying to @aholly7614 #childfree #regretfulparent #childfreebychoice #GenshinImpact32 #fyp #foryou #parenting ♬ Music Instrument - Gerhard Siagian
This TikToker Replied To A Person Saying They Haven’t Met Anyone Who Regrets Having Children With Real-Life Stories From Parents Who Do

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#1 I Let Myself Be Talked Out Of My Abortion And Out Of Putting My Twins Up For Adoption. I Will Never Forgive Myself

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#2 Gave Up My “Time” With My Daughter And Feel Better Than I Ever Have Since Becoming A Mom

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#3 Regret Having A Kid

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#4 I've Gotten A Taste Of What Life Would Be Without My Child And It Has Made Me Even More Regretful

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#5 Coworkers Talking About Why They Don't Want Kids

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#6 I Never Want To Come Home

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#7 I Want To Tell Others To Save Themselves From This Misery

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#8 For The Love Of God, Don’t Let Society Pressure You To Have Another Kid

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#9 Honestly, What Is There To Enjoy About Parenthood?

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#10 I Want My Old Life Back

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#11 Are Men Often The Driving Force Behind Having Children?

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#12 I Honestly Just Want To Live Alone. No Spouse, No Parents, No Children, No Friends Or Roommates

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