When you first got married, your arguments might have been about big things. Topics like money, family, or future plans probably dominated your disagreements. But after a decade or more together, a funny thing happens. The landscape of your arguments shifts. You’ve likely settled the big issues, so now you bicker about the small, ridiculous, everyday stuff. These aren’t “break-up” fights. Instead, they’re the strangely intimate arguments that only two people who know each other inside and out can have. Recognizing the absurdity of these debates is a hallmark of a long-term, comfortable love.
