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Budget and the Bees
Budget and the Bees
Latrice Perez

10 Reasons People Believe Children Today Are “Soft” Compared to 90s Kids

It’s a familiar complaint. You hear it from Gen X parents, commentators, and even some millennials: “Kids today are just… soft.” This belief is widespread, suggesting that children today are less resilient. In fact, people often see them as more fragile than the “90s kids” who rode bikes without helmets and played outside until dark.

This isn’t just a simple “get off my lawn” complaint. On the contrary, it points to a deep cultural shift. People often remember the ’90s as a sweet spot. For instance, it was before the internet fully took over but after some of the stricter parenting styles of the ’70s and ’80s. So, why do so many people believe 90s kids were tougher? Let’s explore 10 common reasons behind this belief.

1. The Rise of “Gentle Parenting”

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